Mastering Step One.

I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna utilize this blog - a lot - for feminist rants and self-confidence motivation. I'm apalled at the amount of beautiful young girls I know who are wasting themselves because of their lack of self confidence. It's painful to watch creepy little boys take advantage of them and inflict such emotional abuse on the superior gender.

Our one downfall - our reliance on emotions. Men don't have emotions, therefore, it is impossible for them to hurt the way we do. Because we hurt vicariously as well as personally. But I'm not going to get into all of this now. You can read it and agree whole-heartedly, but I've realized I'm not going to change the world one girl at a time until I first instill this into them:

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.

I know you don't believe me, and that's what this post is going to change. A gorgeous woman can walk into a party and every man in there will oogle over her, and she's so intimidated over other girls around her and how she looks that she's none the wiser. So here's what you do: screw every other person at that party. You need to walk around like you have an invisible crown on your head. You just might be the most insecure person there and can't even fathom mustering up one iota of self confidence. So - FAKE IT.

If you fake it long enough, you'll soon see that it begins to come naturally, and the facade will be easier and easier to pull off - because it's morphing into a reality. So here is your first homework assignment:

At least two to three times a day, you need to stand in front of your mirror and tell yourself that you're beautiful. You stand there and repeat it until you believe it. You need to eliminate all "competition" - i.e. - "that other girl has prettier eyes than I do, and the other one has a better body than I do, and what's her name has a better personality"....let me tell you something. You will NEVER have Other Girl's eyes, body, or personality, so drop it. Focus on perfecting what you do have. Flirt with your eyes; speak with your eyes. Dominate with your body. And enhance your personality.

Don't overwhelm yourself; I'm finished. For now, anyways. I've done my job, now you do yours. Get off your computer and go look at yourself in the mirror. Look at your face from all angles and repeat after me: "Wow, I'm hot."

It's not going to change over night. This might take a couple of days before you start believing it. And don't ever feed yourself the lie of "no one thinks I'm pretty."

Because I do.

Now go. Stop wasting time.